If you’re here, you’re probably asking yourself:
“Is she right for me?”
It’s too bad we don’t have a crystal ball to find out.
But, in lieu of one, I can tell you about myself and let you decide.
The Short Answer:
I’m a NEPA native and experienced therapist (10+ years) offering virtual telehealth therapy and coaching sessions for clients across Pennsylvania and New Jersey. I use an eclectic approach of styles as I believe there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to healing. I offer morning and evening sessions to accommodate busy schedules.
The Long(er) Answer:
I’m a relational therapist at heart, and I’m always looking for new ways to connect with my clients. I’m a new mom, as well as pet mom to three cats and a border collie/golden retriever mix. I enjoy reading, painting, listening to a variety of music, and playing video games. If you think of yourself as a little bit nerdy, different, cerebral, or just a curious person in general, I might be a good fit for you!
I believe that therapy should include intentional strategies and treatment that helps you understand what steps you need to take on your healing journey. This could include helping you to understand how you see your distress and its intricacies, building new skills or perspectives, and ongoing discussions to make these interventions work for you.
No single approach may be for everyone, so I have worked with a variety of models to hone an eclectic approach, including training in ecosystemic structural family therapy (ESFT), rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT), and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). I am open to working with you to find the best approach for you, and seeking additional training to continue to grow with you.
I believe that remaining client-centered and strengths-based is the best way to help meet an individual where they are at and support them in their growth, and so I will work to get to know you and create an approach that caters to you and your needs. I believe in the importance of authenticity and transparency, and use these values to guide treatment. I have experience working with children (ages 6 and up) and teens, adults, couples, and families.
What do my clients say about me?
While I do not personally ask for testimonials, former clients through a platform I previously contracted with were invited to share their ratings and thoughts through a secure
third-party platform.
My clients consistently describe my approach as warm, authentic, intelligent, and solution-oriented. Across platforms, client-offered feedback demonstrates my commitment to effective, empathetic therapy and a genuine, transparent approach that fosters our trust and your growth.
Modalities & Specialties:
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My own journeys with anxiety, depression, grief, and trauma feeds my drive for helping others find their path and nurture their healing, in whatever shape it takes.
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All families tolerate a certain baseline of dysfunction (i.e., being overwhelmed with stress), but not all dysfunction wounds attachment or breaks relationships. A family is the product of the child and siblings (if present), the caregivers, the caregivers’ childhood and family, the community and local context, racial and social systems, and generational and historical trauma. To that end, I value approaching families through an ecosystemic structural lens. I trained under Dr. Steve Simms through the Philadelphia Family and Child Training Center (PFCTC) and Dr. C. Wayne Jones through the Center for Family Based Training in Ecosystemic Structural Family Therapy (ESFT), obtaining certification in 2020. This model centers the family’s distress and healing, rather than assigning blame to the child or the parents. My approach is about how we shift the drivers of your family’s dysfunction to what a healthy family looks like for you.
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As a queer woman whose life may not always “look” queer from the outside, I get how complicated sexuality and identity can be; whether you’re already out, still figuring it out, or anything in between, this will always be a space for you to be your whole self.
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Being neurodivergent often means constantly feeling like you’re always going to say The Wrong Thing™, be “too much” while also simultaneously somehow never being enough, and trying to navigate a minefield of esoteric social rules and deep emotions that people just don’t seem to understand. Our field is still figuring out how to show up to the steadily growing neurodivergent population and what this label even means. What used to be applied to autism alone, we now understand to include also ADHD, the newly developed term “AuDHD” as ADHD being highly comorbid with autism, and even complex trauma that rewires the brain. My approach to “treatment” for neurodivergence isn’t about how to fine-tune your mask or learn to play 4D social chess better than everyone else, but figure out how to tune into your body and what you need to feel empowered living the life you want to live.
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Anger is a strange emotion, one that is often stigmatized and used to vilify who we are and devalue our goodness. But anger, at its very essence, is love. Love that has been tortured and maimed, and the anger that emerges is to protect that hurt. Anger is a part of all of us, but it isn’t who we are. It’s a part that responds to our pain, and I can help you learn how to heal and soothe that hurt, to quell and control the anger that responds to it.
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It would be nice if life came with a manual and some kind of GPS. One that told you what would lead you to the career you actually want, instead of all the disappointed voices you know hijacking the navigation system. Sometimes, we make all the right decisions and take all the right steps, and in the end, we still find ourselves feeling like we did something wrong or we failed. We wonder where the lesson is, and “what was it all for?” while we grapple with the gut-wrenching reality of feeling like we’re starting over again. But you may be further along than you realize, despite feeling like the scaffold is gone, or was never truly there to begin with. I can help you reassess your individual interests, realize your skills, reconnect with your values, and make an informed decision about what the next steps look like.
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Today, social media brings us together as much as it tears us apart, the geopolitical climate drives up hopelessness and nihilism about the future, and suicide has become the second leading cause of death for children and adolescents. Growing up now is radically different from what other generations knew it to be. And radically more difficult. More isolating. I value creating a safe and protective environment for all of my clients, but I understand that younger clients need more time and trust to feel safe enough to open up and share the story that wants to be told. For adolescents, storytelling is the most powerful therapy, where we can explore a sense of meaning, what feels broken, and put the pieces back together.
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Distress and worry threaten to overwhelm most of us at some point in our lives. Resilience and grit come from a variety of experiences and opportunities, but we’re not always given the grace and compassion needed to learn those pathways. We learn to fear failure, fear novelty, fear making mistakes. We see Plan B (or C or D or E) as confirmation of that failure, and we withdraw even further. Coping skills aren’t magic. They won’t suddenly make you brave or fix your problems. They’re meant to give you a temporary mechanism for grounding your nervous system so it can make a little bit of peace, enough to make a difference in how we approach our normal decision making that leads to avoidance.
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Existential concerns tend to show up quietly at first, sometimes just questions about meaning, purpose, freedom, responsibility, and what it means to live a “good” life. Sometimes they arrive in moments of transition or loss; sometimes they’ve been humming in the background for as long as you can remember. When our old answers to these questions start feeling off, it can feel unsettling, even destabilizing. We might withdraw or go numb, avoid anything we think could cause friction or more destabilization. But we need challenges and a sense of purpose; without them, life can feel even more hollow, and the risk of despair or suicidal thoughts can increase. Existential therapy isn’t about spoon-feeding you new answers to memorize, but about creating space to ask better, more honest questions. Together, we explore what gives your life meaning, how you relate to uncertainty, and what it looks like to live in alignment with your values, in a life where there are no guarantees.
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Most couples don’t come to therapy because they’ve “failed,” but because the ways they learned to survive together are no longer working. Patterns harden, resentment creeps in, and conversations turn into battles or long silences. Underneath it all is usually a shared longing to feel understood, safe, and chosen. Couples counseling is about slowing things down enough to hear what’s really being said, and what’s been left unsaid. I help couples untangle conflict, identify the cycles they’re stuck in, and learn how to communicate needs without losing themselves or each other in the process.
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There is no universal instruction manual for parenting, only a chorus of opinions that can leave you feeling judged, confused, or like you’re somehow doing it wrong. Parent coaching offers a space to step out of that noise and reconnect with what matters most to you and your family. Together, we look at your child’s behavior through a lens of development, nervous system regulation, and unmet needs, rather than blame or failure. My goal is to help you feel more confident, attuned, and grounded in your role, while building tools that actually work in the real, messy moments of parenting.
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Relationships are where we most deeply heal, and where we most deeply hurt. But sometimes, we have to be willing to let ourselves be cast as the villain in someone else’s story in order to be the hero in our own; easier said than done, right? Many people notice repeating patterns in friendships, family dynamics, or romantic connections and wonder why the same pain keeps resurfacing. These patterns often began as adaptations to keep us safe or connected, even if they no longer serve us now. In therapy, we explore how you relate to others, how boundaries are formed or broken, and what happens when closeness feels risky. Together, we work toward building relationships that feel reciprocal, authentic, and grounded in mutual respect.
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School and work stress today goes far beyond homework and work-life balance. Academic pressure, social comparison, constant evaluation, and fear about the future can overwhelm even the most capable of us. When stress takes over, motivation drops, confidence erodes, and learning becomes more about survival than curiosity. I can help you understand how stress impacts the brain and body, and develop strategies that support both emotional wellbeing and functioning. The goal isn’t perfection, but sustainability, balance, and a sense of competence that extends beyond grades and performance.
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Low self-esteem rarely shows up as simply “not liking yourself.” It often looks like self-doubt, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or the constant fear of being found out (#impostersyndrome). These patterns usually formed for a reason, to protect you from rejection, criticism, or harm, but over time they can shrink your world. Therapy focused on self-esteem and confidence is about understanding where these beliefs came from and gently challenging the ones that no longer fit. Together, we work toward building a more compassionate relationship with yourself, one rooted in worth, not performance.
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Our thoughts shape how we feel, and how we feel shapes what we do, often so quickly that it feels automatic and out of our control. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on slowing that process down. Many of the beliefs we carry about ourselves, others, and the world were formed in moments when we were just trying to make sense of pain or stay safe. Over time, those beliefs can harden into patterns that keep us stuck. CBT isn’t about “positive thinking” or forcing yourself to feel better; it’s about learning to notice these patterns with curiosity and compassion, to challenge the ones that no longer serve you, and to experiment with new ways of responding. Together, we work to build skills that help you feel more grounded, empowered, and able to move through life with greater flexibility.
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Our internal topography is often rich, but we lack the tools to actually explore it. And worse, when we are brave enough to venture into those jungles, we return without the language to talk about what we found. Parts work is a useful tool to help notice, name, understand, and give voice to the parts of ourselves that operate our minds and drive us to become stuck in patterns and conflicts.
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You don’t need to be good at art to gain the therapeutic benefit from doing the work, because art isn’t always about curating the pretty things or creating something beautiful. It’s about who we are, what’s happened to us, and how our lives were affected. At its core, art is about translating the internal parts of yourself into something that transcends the rules of language. Sometimes, feelings don’t always translate neatly into the language we have available today. The creativity to find ourselves in the art we create begins to build the bridge between our internal world and the external, and becomes the first step towards healing.
Disclaimers:
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Due to the virtual nature of telehealth, not all clients may be suitable for clinical work through remote service delivery. While I will make every effort to make reasonable accommodations with all clients, I reserve the right to refer clients to a more suitable provider if I feel I am unable to meet the needs expressed in our sessions or if expectations are outside of my scope of practice. In my work with children, I will assess during intake if your child is appropriate for telehealth services. Again, I will make all reasonable accommodations, such as suggesting for you to sit in with your child during session, to try to strengthen treatment outcomes. In the event that I determine telehealth is not a viable delivery option, I will support you with finding another provider who can meet your needs if you choose.
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Please be aware that under Pennsylvania state law (Act 65), children ages 14 or older have the right to make decisions regarding their mental health care. What this is means is:
A child 14 or older can provide consent for treatment that cannot be revoked by a parent or guardian
Under this same law, the inverse is also true:
A child, even if 14 or older, cannot revoke the consent of a parent or guardian who provided the consent for the treatment of that child
For more information, please visit the Pennsylvania General Assembly website regarding mental health treatment and abrogation of consent here
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I am a general practitioner, which means my focus is on treatment and therapeutic case management when necessary. While I do not provide autism evaluations, court testimonies, custody evaluations, or forensic interviews, I am happy to help work with you to find an appropriate provider in the course of our work together.
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In my work with couples, I encourage that all couples attend sessions at least once a week for the initial three months of treatment. I also recommend that each partner be receiving individual therapy outside of our work together. Please ensure that your insurance or HSA/FSA covers CPT code 90847 if you plan to seek reimbursement.
About Kardia Counseling
When we think of the word “cardia,” we often think of our hearts. We hear about cardiac muscles, cardiac arrest, cardiac treatment, and everything in between. It’s synonymous with the vital organ within our bodies.
But in its Greek roots, the word “kardia” means so much more. More than the literal physical organ that sustains our life, it is also the metaphorical intersection where our thoughts are born, our feelings are felt, and our choices are made.
It is home to our intelligence, our moral reservoirs, and what calls us to action (or inaction). It is the seat of secular faith and the equivalent of the innermost version of our self.
In the day to day push and pulls, the crushing pressures we shoulder, the emotional weights we carry, and the pain we endure, we can lose that sense of self. We live lives full of uncertainty, loss, and endings, and it can be hard to know what we want or what presence we wish to hold. It is messy, and we have all faced times where we suffer feelings of worthlessness, emptiness, and panic. We may find ourselves so frightened of conflict that we agree to relationships that feel exhausting or shape us into a person we don’t want to be.
Our suffering becomes self-protective, but in this suffering, we are communicating an unspoken need for change, for ourselves, for others, and to feel at ease in the greater world.
People often come to therapy with the belief that they can no longer tolerate these negative feelings and hope that therapy will eliminate these painful emotions. While I realize the want to escape from what feels overwhelming, my goal is to help you not suppress your emotions but use them to develop skills to co-exist and thrive with them.
In therapy, I will walk with you to help you explore inherited fears, ecosystemic trauma, and other cognitive distortions or labels you’ve been given. I will help you when your go-to coping methods have collapsed, and you feel you can no longer keep intrusive thoughts, ideas, and feelings away. I believe that together, we can help you reconnect to your center — your kardia — and rebuild what may feel lost or broken.

